Wondering how the heck I became your inside woman?

Several years ago, I was sitting in the park with a male friend who was super frustrated with his dating life…or lack thereof. Even more frustrating for him was that he had become everyone’s “project.”

Everyone we knew had some kind of advice for him, whether it was to dress differently, approach more women, get a haircut, go out to different kinds of places, or my personal favorite…

“Just be yourself.”

Sound familiar?

Anyway, we were sitting together laughing about all of the crazy suggestions he kept getting, and suddenly, he got serious and said,

“Well, there is one thing I’m doing to get better at dating. But you can’t tell anyone.”

I was intrigued!

“Ok, I won’t tell, I promise.”

“I’m reading this book. It’s called The Game. It’s all about how to pick up women.”

I could tell he thought I was going to react by saying that it was disgusting and sleazy and horrible…but I was actually excited to know more!

You see, I know it seems hard to believe, but until he said that, it didn’t actually occur to me that you could get help with your dating life. I really believed that you were “stuck” with who you were born to be, and if you weren’t naturally good with the opposite sex, well, too bad for you.

Thank goodness I got rid of THAT limiting belief!

Anyway, I read The Game–and couldn’t put it down. After that, I started studying more and more dating material. At this point, I had no idea I would end up as a dating expert myself one day; the journey was a personal one on a quest to find love.

Seriously, my dating life used to be a total mess and I suffered a lot of rejection and heartbreak before “figuring this stuff out”!

After finishing the book, I borrowed the audio version of David DeAngelo’s “Cocky Comedy” program, where I first heard Sean Stephenson interviewed. Sean’s words moved me so much that I immediately called his office and asked him to be my personal mentor.

A mentorship turned into a friendship, and that turned into an eventual business partnership when Sean created Inner Game Magazine. For a year, I was Inner Game’s “Inside Woman,” writing and coaching men on how to get inside a woman’s mind and heart (as well as her pants).

Eventually, Inner Game Magazine closed, and thus I created Getting Inside a Woman. I’ve dedicated myself to creating products and services that help you truly become the kind of man that naturally attracts women.