Approach is As Easy As…

Many men study strategies and tactics to approaching women that would make hostage negotiators jealous. These men (usually pick-up artists) often talk about women as highly emotional, fickle, ADD creatures who, without the proper finesse, are easily spooked into the arms of a smoother, suaver man. As a result, there are entire books, websites, forums, […]

It’s Your Turn to Teach the Women About Men!

Hello, With every new Getting Inside a Woman article, it seemed I would get at least one comment or email from one of you asking, “What about the women? Don’t they need to work on themselves just as much as we do?” Well, YES!  So, introducing my new blog for women: Inspire His Desire! (check […]

Creating Instant Connections

Have you ever known someone for about 5 minutes, and already felt like you knew her (or him) really well? Chances are, you two were in rapport with each other. Have you ever known one of those guys who, no matter where he goes, he seems to be able to make friends with everyone and […]

The Power of the Pussy

It’s funny, of all of the things I’ve shared with you over the last several years, there is one story I haven’t told yet: the story of how I got all the Skittles. I’ve had several clients express frustration that “women can get whatever they want just because they have a vagina.” This story addresses […]

Romance vs. Logic

Men, let’s get one thing straight right now: when a woman says she wants (more) romance, what she is really saying is that she wants more sexual energy. If you’ve ever wondered what the big deal is about “this romance stuff,” or if you’ve felt left out because you aren’t into it, then it’s probably […]

Are You Getting Results?

Today is one of my “life philosophy” rants–because if there’s one thing that drives me nuts, it’s when I see people follow certain methods or techniques or teachings even though they are NOT getting the results that they want from doing so. I knew a man several years ago who is the poster child for […]

Searching For The Perfect Woman?

I know, I know, there’s no such thing as “perfect.” But there is such a thing as the perfect woman for you, and if you want to actually have a good, healthy, sexy, satisfying and fulfilling relationship, then you must not settle for anything less! One of the biggest issues that I see in dating […]

How to *Really* Flirt

If you don’t know how to flirt, then you won’t be successful at creating attraction. Maybe that seems like a no-brainer, but you’d be surprised at how many men I’ve talked with who think that what they need is better conversation skills, when what they really need is better flirting skills. Flirting isn’t about being […]

Why “One-Size-Fits-All” Dating Advice Doesn’t Work

I’m super excited to introduce a new Getting Inside a Woman workshop: the Date Like a Natural Weekend Intensive! One thing that I’ve learned after pouring tons of my own time, money, and energy into figuring out “this dating stuff” for myself is that “one-size-fits-all” dating advice doesn’t work. You can’t learn to be more effective at […]

What the &*$% is a ‘Limiting Belief’?

Have you ever had anyone tell you that the reason you don’t have what you want in your life (women, money, perfect health…you name it) is because you have “limiting beliefs”? Maybe even yours truly has said this at some point?  😎 It’s true that limiting beliefs are one of the main reasons why people […]