Are You Doing All the Work?

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Recently quite a few of you–clients and readers alike–have been asking me the same question: “Aren’t women responsible for some of the stuff that happens in dating, too?” Yes. :-) More and more, I’m realizing that many men still don’t realize what the woman’s side of the equation is supposed to look like. Most men [...]

3 Ways That (Well-Intentioned) Men Creep Women Out

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Nobody wants to be the creepy guy. The funny thing is, though, the guys who are afraid of being a creep are usually NOT creeps at all; true creeps are unaware of how creepy they are. Even well-intentioned guys end up creeping women out sometimes. Ironically, this can be more true for guys who have [...]

Think Fast

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The other day I was waiting for my order at Jamba Juice when a guy walked in and stared at me. He actually did a double take (which was flattering :-) ), ordered his smoothie, and then stared at me again, looked away, looked back, stared some more.  My initial rush of excitement and intrigue [...]

What if she says ‘No’?

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Recently I got an email from a reader who, after reading my post on how to be confidently aggressive (Why Women Love Edward from Twilight), asked the following question: “How do you know when a woman is not receptive to your advances?” Women love to feel a man’s sexual power and potential for aggression, but [...]

How to Give Great Sex Vibes

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Hey there, It’s Liz Leia, your inside woman, and I want to introduce you to my friend Chelsea. Chelsea is a talented writer, NLP trainer, and all around quality woman. Like me, she’s here to give you an “inside” guide to what women think, feel, and experience in dating and relationships. So, without further ado, [...]

Creating and Maintaining “Status”

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Lots of pick-up artists claim that approaching women and showing interest lowers your status, but this is not true, and going out to meet women with this mentality will actually kill your game—and probably the rest of your social life. Showing your interest/attraction towards a woman does not lower your value and or/status. If it [...]

Dealing with Approach Anxiety

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Let me ask you something: do you feel anxious or nervous about approaching women? When you approach a woman, do you get the sinking feeling that she would rather be doing anything else than talk to you? Well, I wish I could tell you that it was all in your head, but chances are, you’ve [...]

Liz talks with Marni creator of The Wing Girl Method

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For the past six years Marni has worked side-by-side with top male attraction and relationship experts, and is the lead female voice in the Pick Up Artist and Seduction Communities, which advise over 30 million men worldwide. Men such as Neil Strauss, David DeAngelo, Adam Gilad, Carlos Xuma, Adam Lyons, and Vin DiCarlo all turn [...]

Assertive vs. Aggressive

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Recently one of you asked me what’s the difference between being aggressive and being assertive. Great question! Actually, it’s really important to know the difference between these two, because otherwise you could, in an effort to avoid being an aggressive jerk, also avoid being as masculine as you’d need to be to attract women. See, [...]

Amanda Lyons Interview

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Featured on FOX, NBC, the New York Post and Cosmopolitan magazine, Amanda Lyons is known worldwide as one of the only female trainers in the art of seduction.  She travels around the globe each week training men and women and ensuring they end up with the kind of people they want to be dating.  Amanda [...]