Getting a Woman to Respect You: Transforming Brats into Sexy, Quality Women

One of the most common questions I get from men during dating coaching is “How do I get a woman to respect me?” (aka “How do I get her to stop being such a crazy bitch?”) 😉 Different forms of disrespect include: Demanding that you buy the drinks Cheating or infidelity Verbally abusing you when […]

Why Do Women Like Jerks?

This is probably one of the most common questions I get from men: why do women like jerks? The saying goes that nice guys finish last, but is that true? Many women will tell you that they don’t like jerks. Some women don’t like jerks. Most of them do. However, you DO NOT need to […]

It’s Your Turn to Teach the Women About Men!

Hello, With every new Getting Inside a Woman article, it seemed I would get at least one comment or email from one of you asking, “What about the women? Don’t they need to work on themselves just as much as we do?” Well, YES!  So, introducing my new blog for women: Inspire His Desire! (check […]

The Power of the Pussy

It’s funny, of all of the things I’ve shared with you over the last several years, there is one story I haven’t told yet: the story of how I got all the Skittles. I’ve had several clients express frustration that “women can get whatever they want just because they have a vagina.” This story addresses […]

Romance vs. Logic

Men, let’s get one thing straight right now: when a woman says she wants (more) romance, what she is really saying is that she wants more sexual energy. If you’ve ever wondered what the big deal is about “this romance stuff,” or if you’ve felt left out because you aren’t into it, then it’s probably […]

Are You Getting Results?

Today is one of my “life philosophy” rants–because if there’s one thing that drives me nuts, it’s when I see people follow certain methods or techniques or teachings even though they are NOT getting the results that they want from doing so. I knew a man several years ago who is the poster child for […]

3 Myths About Masculinity in Relationships

Have you ever heard the idea that in order to attract women and be successful in a relationship, that you need to get in touch with your masculine energy (Maybe you’ve heard that from yours truly)? Well, this is definitely true; many men end up in the friend zone or in sexually unfulfilling relationships because […]

How to *Really* Flirt

If you don’t know how to flirt, then you won’t be successful at creating attraction. Maybe that seems like a no-brainer, but you’d be surprised at how many men I’ve talked with who think that what they need is better conversation skills, when what they really need is better flirting skills. Flirting isn’t about being […]

Maybe More ‘Spark’ is the Last Thing You Need

There’s a misconception out there that if you aren’t attracting the women you want, or if your relationship is on the rocks, then what you need is to rekindle “the spark.” Well, that’s sometimes true, and not always. Sometimes creating or amplifying the spark will actually make things worse, especially if you’re already in a […]

‘I Want a Nice Guy’ (and Other Lies Women Tell)

Check out the recording from my teleseminar: ‘I Want a Nice Guy’ (and Other Lies Women Tell). In this audio, I’ll cover why women say they want nice guys but then date jerks, how to deal with and avoid drama, what to do when you’re in the friend zone, and a lot more! Check it […]