It’s the F*cking Holidays!

As the holiday season rolls around and 2011 is coming to close, I’d like to thank you, my readers, for a great year! I appreciate ALL of your comments, questions, emails, and support. I wish you happy holidays and a merry new year! To close out the 2011 Getting Inside a Woman season, here’s a […]

Getting a Woman to Respect You: Transforming Brats into Sexy, Quality Women

One of the most common questions I get from men during dating coaching is “How do I get a woman to respect me?” (aka “How do I get her to stop being such a crazy bitch?”) 😉 Different forms of disrespect include: Demanding that you buy the drinks Cheating or infidelity Verbally abusing you when […]

Approach is As Easy As…

Many men study strategies and tactics to approaching women that would make hostage negotiators jealous. These men (usually pick-up artists) often talk about women as highly emotional, fickle, ADD creatures who, without the proper finesse, are easily spooked into the arms of a smoother, suaver man. As a result, there are entire books, websites, forums, […]

How to Get Your (Much-Needed) Space

One of the biggest “battles of the sexes” is a man’s fight for his space–his time for himself. Why does this happen? Why does it seem like most women won’t give you space, or at least will be upset when you do get it? This is one of the biggest struggles I’ve had in my […]

It’s Your Turn to Teach the Women About Men!

Hello, With every new Getting Inside a Woman article, it seemed I would get at least one comment or email from one of you asking, “What about the women? Don’t they need to work on themselves just as much as we do?” Well, YES!  So, introducing my new blog for women: Inspire His Desire! (check […]

Creating Instant Connections

Have you ever known someone for about 5 minutes, and already felt like you knew her (or him) really well? Chances are, you two were in rapport with each other. Have you ever known one of those guys who, no matter where he goes, he seems to be able to make friends with everyone and […]

The Power of the Pussy

It’s funny, of all of the things I’ve shared with you over the last several years, there is one story I haven’t told yet: the story of how I got all the Skittles. I’ve had several clients express frustration that “women can get whatever they want just because they have a vagina.” This story addresses […]

Getting Over Your Ex

Still not over your ex? Whether you’re harboring resentment, or still harboring feelings for her, getting over a girlfriend from the past is a crucial step to having a (better) girlfriend in the future. Simply put, you can’t bring home a shiny, new car if you still have all the old ones parked in the […]

Romance vs. Logic

Men, let’s get one thing straight right now: when a woman says she wants (more) romance, what she is really saying is that she wants more sexual energy. If you’ve ever wondered what the big deal is about “this romance stuff,” or if you’ve felt left out because you aren’t into it, then it’s probably […]

Are You Getting Results?

Today is one of my “life philosophy” rants–because if there’s one thing that drives me nuts, it’s when I see people follow certain methods or techniques or teachings even though they are NOT getting the results that they want from doing so. I knew a man several years ago who is the poster child for […]