Creating Instant Connections

Have you ever known someone for about 5 minutes, and already felt like you knew her (or him) really well? Chances are, you two were in rapport with each other. Have you ever known one of those guys who, no matter where he goes, he seems to be able to make friends with everyone and […]

The Power of the Pussy

It’s funny, of all of the things I’ve shared with you over the last several years, there is one story I haven’t told yet: the story of how I got all the Skittles. I’ve had several clients express frustration that “women can get whatever they want just because they have a vagina.” This story addresses […]

Getting Over Your Ex

Still not over your ex? Whether you’re harboring resentment, or still harboring feelings for her, getting over a girlfriend from the past is a crucial step to having a (better) girlfriend in the future. Simply put, you can’t bring home a shiny, new car if you still have all the old ones parked in the […]

Romance vs. Logic

Men, let’s get one thing straight right now: when a woman says she wants (more) romance, what she is really saying is that she wants more sexual energy. If you’ve ever wondered what the big deal is about “this romance stuff,” or if you’ve felt left out because you aren’t into it, then it’s probably […]

Are You Getting Results?

Today is one of my “life philosophy” rants–because if there’s one thing that drives me nuts, it’s when I see people follow certain methods or techniques or teachings even though they are NOT getting the results that they want from doing so. I knew a man several years ago who is the poster child for […]

3 Myths About Masculinity in Relationships

Have you ever heard the idea that in order to attract women and be successful in a relationship, that you need to get in touch with your masculine energy (Maybe you’ve heard that from yours truly)? Well, this is definitely true; many men end up in the friend zone or in sexually unfulfilling relationships because […]

Searching For The Perfect Woman?

I know, I know, there’s no such thing as “perfect.” But there is such a thing as the perfect woman for you, and if you want to actually have a good, healthy, sexy, satisfying and fulfilling relationship, then you must not settle for anything less! One of the biggest issues that I see in dating […]

How to *Really* Flirt

If you don’t know how to flirt, then you won’t be successful at creating attraction. Maybe that seems like a no-brainer, but you’d be surprised at how many men I’ve talked with who think that what they need is better conversation skills, when what they really need is better flirting skills. Flirting isn’t about being […]

Maybe More ‘Spark’ is the Last Thing You Need

There’s a misconception out there that if you aren’t attracting the women you want, or if your relationship is on the rocks, then what you need is to rekindle “the spark.” Well, that’s sometimes true, and not always. Sometimes creating or amplifying the spark will actually make things worse, especially if you’re already in a […]

What If She’s Thinking About Another Man?

Recently, I got this question from a reader: I read an article written by a woman in which she said about a guy’s personality (this guy was already married) being so strong that it was too much for her and the only way she could resist this is by reducing the time she spends around […]