Romance vs. Logic

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Men, let’s get one thing straight right now: when a woman says she wants (more) romance, what she is really saying is that she wants more sexual energy. If you’ve ever wondered what the big deal is about “this romance stuff,” or if you’ve felt left out because you aren’t into it, then it’s probably […]

Are You Getting Results?

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Today is one of my “life philosophy” rants–because if there’s one thing that drives me nuts, it’s when I see people follow certain methods or techniques or teachings even though they are NOT getting the results that they want from doing so. I knew a man several years ago who is the poster child for […]

3 Myths About Masculinity in Relationships

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Have you ever heard the idea that in order to attract women and be successful in a relationship, that you need to get in touch with your masculine energy (Maybe you’ve heard that from yours truly)? Well, this is definitely true; many men end up in the friend zone or in sexually unfulfilling relationships because […]

Searching For The Perfect Woman?

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I know, I know, there’s no such thing as “perfect.” But there is such a thing as the perfect woman for you, and if you want to actually have a good, healthy, sexy, satisfying and fulfilling relationship, then you must not settle for anything less! One of the biggest issues that I see in dating […]

How to *Really* Flirt

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If you don’t know how to flirt, then you won’t be successful at creating attraction. Maybe that seems like a no-brainer, but you’d be surprised at how many men I’ve talked with who think that what they need is better conversation skills, when what they really need is better flirting skills. Flirting isn’t about being […]

Maybe More ‘Spark’ is the Last Thing You Need

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There’s a misconception out there that if you aren’t attracting the women you want, or if your relationship is on the rocks, then what you need is to rekindle “the spark.” Well, that’s sometimes true, and not always. Sometimes creating or amplifying the spark will actually make things worse, especially if you’re already in a […]

What If She’s Thinking About Another Man?

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Recently, I got this question from a reader: I read an article written by a woman in which she said about a guy’s personality (this guy was already married) being so strong that it was too much for her and the only way she could resist this is by reducing the time she spends around […]

Liz talks with Allana Pratt, creator of “Get Her To Say Yes”

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Allana Pratt is the author of several books for women and Get Her To Say Yes for men.  She is a a columnist for eHarmony and is a Relationship Expert on CBS, TLC & FOX.  Allana Pratt is curing ‘Nice Guy’ syndrome. She’s a #1 rated radio host and began her journey as the Sexy […]

Learning to Date Your Wife

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The other day I went to a women’s networking dinner and I met a woman who, when she found out what I do for a living, responded with, “Oh, I should send my husband to see you. He needs to learn how to date me.” And she’s been married for over 30 years! You know […]

Why “One-Size-Fits-All” Dating Advice Doesn’t Work

I’m super excited to introduce a new Getting Inside a Woman workshop: the Date Like a Natural Weekend Intensive! One thing that I’ve learned after pouring tons of my own time, money, and energy into figuring out “this dating stuff” for myself is that “one-size-fits-all” dating advice doesn’t work. You can’t learn to be more effective at […]