Comments on: The Thug vs. the Computer Geek http://www.gettinginsideawoman.com/thug-vs-computer-geek Your #1 Source On What Women Want Sun, 08 Jan 2012 20:29:00 +0000 hourly 1 By: Anonymous http://www.gettinginsideawoman.com/thug-vs-computer-geek/comment-page-1#comment-120 Anonymous Sat, 16 Apr 2011 17:52:00 +0000 http://www.gettinginsideawoman.com/?p=509#comment-120 Doing something with a woman that she also does with her girl friends will not necessarily put you in the friend zone. The friend zone happens when you lack masculine sexual confidence. Sometimes over-sharing can be a symptom of that, but sharing itself is not what causes you to land in the friend zone. Doing something with a woman that she also does with her girl friends will not necessarily put you in the friend zone. The friend zone happens when you lack masculine sexual confidence. Sometimes over-sharing can be a symptom of that, but sharing itself is not what causes you to land in the friend zone.

]]> By: Anonymous http://www.gettinginsideawoman.com/thug-vs-computer-geek/comment-page-1#comment-118 Anonymous Fri, 15 Apr 2011 04:59:00 +0000 http://www.gettinginsideawoman.com/?p=509#comment-118 Hey Liz, I guess what i'm trying to get at is that it's good to get involved in this conversation, but i guess my concern is revealing too much, too soon. Marni for example was talking about revealing too much to a women too soon is direct route to that friend zone because that's what girls do, yall get together and see how many "me too" things you have in common. So i guess my question is, how do engage a female, and allow yourself to get into the conversation, but make sure you keep the mystery and intrigue about yourself? Hey Liz,

I guess what i’m trying to get at is that it’s good to get involved in this conversation, but i guess my concern is revealing too much, too soon. Marni for example was talking about revealing too much to a women too soon is direct route to that friend zone because that’s what girls do, yall get together and see how many “me too” things you have in common. So i guess my question is, how do engage a female, and allow yourself to get into the conversation, but make sure you keep the mystery and intrigue about yourself?

]]> By: Anonymous http://www.gettinginsideawoman.com/thug-vs-computer-geek/comment-page-1#comment-117 Anonymous Thu, 14 Apr 2011 20:40:00 +0000 http://www.gettinginsideawoman.com/?p=509#comment-117 No, definitely this won't land you in the Friend Zone! This is a really common misconception that men shouldn't share feelings or be vulnerable, but vulnerability and wussy-ness are not the same thing! :) No, definitely this won’t land you in the Friend Zone! This is a really
common misconception that men shouldn’t share feelings or be vulnerable, but
vulnerability and wussy-ness are not the same thing! :)

]]> By: Anonymous http://www.gettinginsideawoman.com/thug-vs-computer-geek/comment-page-1#comment-116 Anonymous Wed, 13 Apr 2011 22:04:00 +0000 http://www.gettinginsideawoman.com/?p=509#comment-116 2. The Thug understood that good conversation is about shared emotional experiences, not things in common. Job interview style questioning keeps a person on auto-pilot. Boring. The way to get a woman engaged in conversation with you is to get engaged in conversation yourself. Share emotionally relevant experiences with her—REAL ones from your REAL life! She will connect with them even if she’s had a completely different life experience than you have. ^ Hey Liz, but wont sharing emotional experiences with a woman put you in the friend zone? Because you're revealing too much, and shouldn't you let them do the majority of the talking. 2. The Thug understood that good conversation is about shared emotional experiences, not things in common.
Job interview style questioning keeps a person on auto-pilot. Boring. The way to get a woman engaged in conversation with you is to get engaged in conversation yourself. Share emotionally relevant experiences with her—REAL ones from your REAL life! She will connect with them even if she’s had a completely different life experience than you have.

^ Hey Liz, but wont sharing emotional experiences with a woman put you in the friend zone? Because you’re revealing too much, and shouldn’t you let them do the majority of the talking.

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